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Jan. 1st, 2007

It's taken a while to reflect on some of the advantages of a vasectomy and being a polyamourous man. At the end of 2003, I had the snip and it's held up quite well. Recently, as I had been talking with M., we were discussing the people around our lives as it relates to safety factors and fluid-bonded versus play with condoms. Although I can't see us meeting at all now, the content of the discussions can be applied in connections I may develop with others.

I'm never going to do anything that puts me at risk, thereby putting my wife at risk as well. That being said, if there is enough trust between myself and someone else, and I feel enough confidence that risk factors are next to none, then the chances can certainly exist in the future to leave the condoms aside. It's got to be a mutual choice between myself and another woman to do that, as I'm not going to push that subject alone. As for men, the idea of barebacking is a non-starter -- I'll leave that to the porn.

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220lb69lover
Jan. 2nd, 2007 03:42 am (UTC)
That is very cool that you care about the health of your wife so much and not wanting to put her at risk. Good quality to have in partners.
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